Pain vs. Suffering
It has taken me nearly four decades to learn the following distinction between pain versus suffering. At first glance, they seem the same. Pain does
It has taken me nearly four decades to learn the following distinction between pain versus suffering. At first glance, they seem the same. Pain does
There’s an expression here in the United States that money changes people (for the worse) and that power corrupts people. I disagree. Instead, I think
Any time a decision needs to be made, two roles often emerge. There’s the role of the decider versus the role of the critic. Anybody
One of the biggest things you learn at McKinsey is the 80/20 “rule.” This “rule” says that 80% of the results you want can be
Over the past years, I’ve been intrigued by why airplanes crash. Yes, I suppose it’s a slightly morbid fascination, but I suspect it has to
When engineers design bridges, they estimate the amount of forces that will be exerted on the bridge. They engineer the bridge to withstand those forces
One of the biggest revelations I’ve learned about relationships (professional and personal), I picked up years ago from McKinsey. It
All communication has three components: The words you say; The tone of voice (e.g., vocal inflections, cadence, pitch, speed, pauses);
Gravitas is the elusive quality of being taken seriously. In a meeting, when you speak, do people spontaneously quiet down,
Respectful disagreements are extremely helpful and productive. Arguments are a complete waste of time. But wait… aren’t they the same
The single best way to improve your skills in any endeavor is to get feedback on your performance. Two kinds
Your boss walks into the conference room and is unusually harsh towards you and your colleagues. Your boss is clearly
Many people manage their careers by figuring out how to get ahead without actually earning it. This confuses me. While
In a meeting, two people can express the exact same idea, and one will be overlooked while the other will
When you’re in a conflict with someone else, you want to define your goal clearly. Are you trying to “win”
One of my favorite television shows is Inside the Actors Studio. It is a long-form interview show, where a famous